As some of you may remember, last March Sasha took a trip up
to Northern Bulgaria to visit an orphanage.
There was a little girl at this orphanage who we have been praying for
ever since. She was going through the adoption
process so we did not share much on our blog as we did not want to jeopardize
the adoption process. However, she is
now in the United States, and a U.S. citizen.
She has a new Mommy and Daddy, and we can now share her story. This posting will only give you a glimpse of
their story. If you would like to hear
more about this little girl and the amazing family that adopted her you can go
to their blog www.theblessingofverity.com
This little girl was 9 years old when Sasha first saw her,
yet she weighed less than some newborn babies.
She is unable to walk, and still takes food from a bottle and wears
diapers. She has some mental handicaps,
but nothing that should cause her to be in such a physical state.
She has spent almost all of her life in a crib in the same
room of an orphanage. She had very
little human contact, and no play time.
She had her diaper changed once a day.
This went on for 9 years. To us
it is amazing that this little girl is even alive.
The family that adopted her is one of the most loving
families we have ever met. They are not
some Brad and Angelina couple with lots of money looking to help those less
fortunate. They already have 10 kids of their
own, one of whom has down-syndrome. This
family had every reason to not go through the trouble and expense of adopting a
desperately unhealthy little orphan girl from another country. Who would have blamed them if they just
turned a blind eye to the needs of this little one? After all, they can only do so much. Yet all they gave freely for the sake of this
little girl.
A week ago today this little girl spent her last day in an
orphanage. She is an orphan no
longer. She is a daughter. The day after they picked her up her parents
had to take her to a Bulgarian hospital in the middle of the night. Fortunately, just a couple days before we had
shown them one of the best private hospitals in Bulgaria, so they knew where to
go. The doctors at the hospital could
not believe that this little girl was 9 years old. They also could not believe that she was
Bulgarian. They had no idea of the neglect
that is going on in this country in the orphanage system.
Now she is in her new home.
American doctors are looking after her in a hospital in Pennsylvania. We have heard good reports so far. She remains in our prayers.
There is a great need to reform the government run children
programs in Bulgaria. Things like this
should not happen, yet this little girl was not alone. There are more like her.
Please pray that real change would happen. We don’t pretend to know what the solution
is, but something has to change. Thank
God that at least this little girl got out, and that, from the reports we have
heard, many others are to follow with other families.
This is such a heartbreaking, heartwarming story. I read the family's blog as well. Wow. I wonder if there are any charity organizations who try to improve these orphanages. If money is donated does it go truly go to the children and their care? There are so many charities "out there." Its hard to know which ones to donate to and which ones have a true effect. Thank you for sharing this story.
ReplyDeleteThat's a great question Holly, and the answer is often sadly that the money donated does not go the the children and their care. Even donated goods and supplies may end up in the wrong hands. It is a tough situation, and it seems the best thing to do is to get the kids out of there. If you are looking to make a donation to help these kids I would recommend donating to help someone adopt. These kids need loving parents more than anything.
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